Tuesday, January 19, 2010

Introducing: ABBY PATTISON, MA, CN, MHC

Dynamic Paths, Inc. is happy to announce that Abby Pattison, MA, CN, MHC has joined Dr. Allott in providing non-pharmaceutical interventions for depression, anxiety, addictions, sugar cravings and other mental health concerns.  Over the last six months, Dr. Allott and Ms. Pattison have shared training and clinic experiences, redefined operation procedures for--not just joining--but integrating practices in order to better serve your wellness needs.

Abby Pattison brings unique qualities and provides multiple benefits to clients of Dynamic Paths, Inc.  First, both of her master degrees in nutrition and psychology complement and enhance Dr. Allott's understanding that people's relationship to food is primarily emotional.  Secondly, Abby Pattison is interested in working with parents and children over the age of seven years old.  Thirdly, she can provide services at a price point that is more affordable for people struggling in our present economy.

When you come to see Ms. Pattison, you will follow the basic pattern for appointment making as outlined in the Services on the Dynamic Paths website.  You will see Ms. Pattison for two to three appointments working on dietary tools that will improve your symtoms quickly.  Once she has identified the physiological nature of the depression, anxiety, addition, sugar craving or other mental health concerns, you will be referred to Dr. Allott for laboratory analysis.  Dr. Allott and Ms. Pattison will work collaboratively to create a treatment plan.

As your primary support, Ms. Pattison will explain how your symptoms maybe your body's way of expressing its need for nutritional changes.  You and she together will discover foods that will work for you.  The steps to wellness that the two of you create will be practical and well as sustainable.

Call today 206-579-2797 to get started on the pathway to feeling better.

For Your Information

 
WELLNESS SUPPORT GROUP

For Anyone with an Ongoing Physical Health Challenge
Suzanne A. Fox, MSW, Licensed Clinical Social Worker

Meets every other Tuesday, 1 pm to 2:30 pm
Location:  Edmonds, near Stevens Hospital and 5 Corners


For specific session dates and a brief pre-registration phone interview, call Suzanne Fox at 425-775-4262.  She may also be contacted at safox44@gmail.com.

Tuesday, January 05, 2010

CALORIES IN, CALORIES OUT IS A MYTH

Americans are struggling with weight gain, diabetes, depression and anxiety.  Dr. Allot returns to Realize Your Radiance Workshop 2010 on Saturday, April 3, to debunk some of the common myths about these conditions.  She will explain facts about weight gain as well as what foods to eat and not to eat, so that you enjoy optimal health and vitality.  Check out the interesting details of the event plus the possible scholarships at the following link.  www.realizeyourradiance.com/details.htm

Wednesday, November 18, 2009

NEWSLETTER FOR MENTAL HEALTH PROFESSIONALS LAUNCHED

November is the start up month for a Dynamic Paths' newsletter specifically written for mental health professionals. The first issue features the Free Consult Group meeting December 9th on the topic "Evening Binge Eating", research results on Food and Mood, and the announcement of a new focus treatment for individuals with anxiety at Dynamic Paths. The newsletter--a work in progress--will be published monthly as one of the outcomes from Dynamic Paths' fifth-year anniversary event, involving 35 colleagues and friends participating in lively networking and interchange.

If you are not receiving a newletter and would enjoy receiving future copies, please let me know at allott@dynamicpaths.com.

Wednesday, November 11, 2009

CALMING ANXIETY APPOINTMENTS

A set of three appointments at Dynamic Paths focus on reducing anxiety through acupuncture, food and Chinese herbs. Sessions include the following:
  • Three 75-minute appointments
  • Focused problem appointments on anxiety
  • Acupuncture in each appointment
  • Handouts on food strategies to reduce anxiety
  • Individualized, non-addictive Chinese herbal formula that reduces anxiety symptoms
For additional information, please call Dr. Allott at 206-579-2757. Let's schedule your three appointments today.

Wednesday, October 28, 2009

NUTRITION AND MENTAL HEALTH CONSULT GROUP

"Evening Binge Eating"

I am hoping to develop a free consultation group. It will start
as an open but reserve-a-seat gathering. Each meeting will
feature a topic. I will share some medical physiology as well
consistent emotional patterns of annonymous individuals. Then,
we will have a general discussion about how to address both the
emotional patterns and the behavorial patterns.
"Evening Binge Eating" is the first topic. The dates and times will
be Wednesday, December 9th and/or Thursday, December 10th
from 8:00 AM to 10:00 AM, at 943 N, 89th Street, Seattle.
At your earliest convenience, please reserve-a-seat via email or
telephone for the first session of your choice (Wednesday or
Thursday). I look forward to hearing from you soon.

Thursday, September 24, 2009

FOOD, FREE LECTURE AND NETWORKING


You are cordially invited to celebrate Dynamic Paths’
5th Year Anniversary
Please invite friends, family, colleagues, and clients
to come participate.

October 21st — Open House


5:30pm-6:30pm socializing, networking and eating yummy foods
6:30pm to 8pm short talk by Dr. Allott on:
More Energy and Less Anxiety with Q and A,
Simple nutritional interventions and handouts.


Anyone and Everyone is Welcome to Join us.
Location: 943 N. 89 Street See map
For more information call Dr. Kristen Allott 206-579-2757

Thursday, August 06, 2009

SUGAR ADDICTION TO NATURAL EATING: SANE

This Program for Women who:
-Are concerned about how pre-diabetes,diabetes and obesity is effecting their lives.
- Feel trapped by their ever present focus on food.
-Are ready to focus on being physically, emotionally, and mentally healthy.
-Want to learn the difference between physical food cravings vs. emotional food cravings.
-Are tired of quick weight loss programs that lead to quick weight gain and more.

Dr. Kristen Allott and Amy Condon will co-lead a weekly group. Each month, the group will include two sessions specifically focused on the emotional causes of sugar cravings and two sessions examining the physical causes of sugar cravings. The groups are intended provide tools and support for self-care on both the physical and emotional level.

Time: Four Tuesday nights each month from 6-8pm beginning September 22nd. Six month commitment is required.
Cost: $500 per month or 10% discount if paid in full by the first group.
Seating is limited to 8 women, applications are currently being accepted.

For more information, please call Dr. Kristen Allott at 206-579-2757
or see www.dynamicpaths.com


The goal of this group is to assist members in improving their relationship with food, their body, and themselves, and make compassionate changes that support health and well-being.

Thursday, April 16, 2009

Recipe: Berry Compote

½-1 cup of frozen organic or low pesticide raspberries or blueberries
1 tsp almond extract
1 tsp vanilla extract
1-2 TBS of real maple syrup or honey
½ cup of almond flour* or slivered almonds*, passed through a blender/coffee grinder (*I recommend purchasing from Trader Joe’s)

Microwave the berries for about one minute until warm. Mix the rest of the ingredient in to taste.

Variations:
  • Eat as is
  • Eat with high protein Greek yogurt
  • Use on pancakes and French toast, instead of syrup
  • Mix with protein powder

Diet Soda Hurts More Than It Helps

During my “How Food Affects Mood” lectures, people often ask for my opinion of artificial sweeteners. My reply has been, “I am a naturopath, I am skeptical of anything that did not exist 500 years ago.” Now, with the results of a long term study sponsored by the National Heart Lung and Blood Institute, my doubts are confirmed. The study shows that artificial sweeteners cause the very things—obesity and diabetes—that people are trying to prevent by using sugar substitutes.

The Multi-Ethnic Study of Atherosclerosis (MESA) looked at the affects of daily consumption of diet soda, among other factors, on the health of over 6,000 study participants. The study found that the relative risk of type 2 diabetes increased 67% and the risk of metabolic syndrome increased 36% in people who drink diet soda on a daily basis. Type 2 diabetes is caused by an excessive level of glucose in the blood stream due to insulin resistance. Metabolic syndrome is a combination of health concerns that many Americans struggle with, including type 2 diabetes, obesity and hypertension (high blood pressure).
So why would something with no sugar, like diet soda, cause weight gain and glucose regulation problems? To find the answer, let’s first look at what happens when you drink a glass of freshly made lemonade (½ lemon, 2 tsp white sugar and 12 oz. water). The sucrose (white sugar) is converted into glucose and enters the blood stream. Insulin is released by the pancreas when the taste buds sense sweetness on the tongue. Iinsulin’s job is to open the glucose gates on cell membranes so the glucose can enter cells and then be burned as fuel. This is how the body naturally processes sugar.

Now, let’s look at what happens when you drink a diet soda. The taste buds register that you are consuming something really sweet and the pancreas releases insulin expecting glucose to arrive shortly in the blood stream. The insulin starts unlocking the gates to let fuel into cells but there is no renewed fuel supply because there is no sugar in the soda. The cells absorb the limited supply of glucose in your blood stream left over from you last meal, causing a critical deficit. Typically when the level of glucose in the blood stream gets dangerously low, the body has over ten hormones that mobilize glucose to fuel the brain. However, the diet soda has triggered the release of all that insulin, which turns off the mobilizing hormones and causes the body’s glucose regulation system to fail. Long term exposure to these insulin spikes from artificial sweeteners in diet soda causes the body’s muscle cells to ignore insulin prompting and put up a big “Closed for Business” sign or causing insulin resistance. Once the body’s natural process has broken down like this, the glucose rejected by the muscles is absorbed by adipose tissue (fat cells) and the rest accumulates in the blood stream, causing obesity and insulin resistant type 2 diabetes.

Another problem caused by artificial sweeteners is that when insulin is released to clear calories from the blood stream and there are no calories, the body begins burning muscle mass as fuel to keep glucose feeding the brain. Losing muscle mass through this process increases health risks since muscle mass is what consumes calories and helps prevent diabetes and obesity. Additionally, our brain and body with the low fuel supplies will say “Feed me, feed me”. Often setting up the likelihood to binge on sweets later in the day or the next day. The calories in the binge will be a lot higher than in the lemonade.

The ingredients of diet soda, particularly caffeine and amino acids, for a few hours will help improve the symptoms of fatigue and depression. However, long term the same metabolic processes which cause obesity and diabetes will also cause depression and fatigue.

Take home message: Artificial sweeteners don’t delivery! To help keep your body functioning properly, avoid unnatural alternatives. Eat real food and if you are going to have sugary treat have it in small amounts and stop and really enjoy it.

Seminar on Food and Mood in September

Seminar Day Long Seminar for Everyone on Food and Mood!

Nutritional & Complementary Treatment for Mental Health Disorders:
Non-Pharmaceutical Strategies that Work



Friday September 11, 2009 Lynnwood, WA
Wednesday September 16, 2009 in Tacoma, WA
Thursday September 17, 2009 in Seattle, WA

To learn more about these seminars and register at http://www.pesi.com/ or
Dynamic Paths (206)579-2757

Tuesday, September 16, 2008

Sugar Addiction to Natural Eating - SANE

A program treating overeating Eating Disorders and sugar Addictions
This Program for Women who:
· have a life-time history of obesity.
· tired quick weight loss programs followed by quick weight gain program, plus more.
· are ready to focus on being physically, emotional, and mentally healthy.
· want to learn the difference between physical food cravings vs emotional food cravings.
· are meeting weekly with a mental health professional.

Building a Base for Health
The first group of the month will be educational, focusing on the how food affects mood, how to increase metabolism, how to set up a sustainable food and exercise program that works and is enjoyable in your life.

The second group of the month will be working on integration of the mind and body using the principles of mindfulness, movement meditation and positive neuroplasticity.

Cost: $110 per session
Date: 2nd and 4th Wednesdays of the month, a six month commitment is needed.
Time: 6-8 pm
Cost: $110 per session
Seating is limited to 6-8 people, applications will be start being accepted.

For more information, please call Dr. Kristen Allott 206-579-2757

Be proactive—promote your overall wellness!

This group is to assist people in improving their relationship with food, their body, and themselves by learning to listen to their bodies and themselves.

Tuesday, June 03, 2008

Seminar: Treating Depression and Anxiety with Food

Nutritional & Complementary Treatment for Mental Health Disorders: Non-Pharmaceutical Strategies that Work! Seminar

This seminar is for mental health professionals and
individuals trying to improve their overall health.

When: Yakima, Friday, August 15, 2008 at 8 a.m. to 4 p.m.
Tacoma, Thursday, August 21, 2008 at 8 a.m. to 4 p.m.
Seattle Friday, August 22, 2008 at 8 a.m. to 4 p.m.

What will be covered:
· How food affects mood
· Screening and assessment of nutritional deficiencies for anxiety and depression
· Tools and handouts to treating anxiety and depression


“I have personally worked with hundreds
of speakers across the country and Kristen
is at the top of the list when it comes
to performance, professionalism, knowledge
and charm and this is reflected in
stellar audience reviews. Kristen connects
with learners instantly and is able to cut
through the expanse of information to
provide the specific content that can
change people’s lives.”
—Michael Olson, M.S.
Senior Project Manager
PESI, LLC

Sign up today at www.pesi.com

Wednesday, March 12, 2008

Nourish Your Body, Transform Your Life

Nourish Your Body, Transform Your Life
Educational Support Group Series

  • Have you ever wondered how food affects your mood?
  • Are you frustrated with how hard it is to change eating habits?
  • Are you concerned that food advertising is not promoting good health?
  • Tired of craving sugar and carbohydrates?
  • Tired of not caring through with diet changes?

    Group meets: Thursdays, 6-8 pm

April 17: Introduction: How to have more energy and mental clarity-FREE
May 8: Spring into Action: Understanding cravings for sugar and carbs
June 5: The Path of Change: How to rewire your brain

June 26: Food Labels: Understanding what you are eating
July 10: Transform Your Approach: Making friends with your saboteur

Cost: $280 total for all 4 groups, if paid in full by April 24th.
$340 total for all 4 groups, if paid after April 24th.
Seating is limited.

Call or email to RSVP for the free class on April 17th: 206-579-2757
For directions and registration see below.

Be proactive—promote your overall wellness!

This group is to assist people in improving their relationship with food, their body, and themselves by learning to listen to their bodies and themselves.


Process for Registration for Nourish Your Body

  • RSVP by phone (206-579-2757) or email (allott@dynamicpaths.com) for
    Free April 17: Introduction: How to have more energy and mental clarity

  • If you choose to attend, you will be able to registrar on April 17th or can mail in a check for the appropriate amount with your name, address, email and phone number. Be sure to mail the registration to the mailing address not the address of the group.


    Mail-in check for appropriate amount
    Cost: $280 total for all 4 groups, if paid in full by April 24th.
    $340 total for all 4 groups, if paid after April 24th.
    Seating is limited.

    The mailing address is:
    Dynamic Paths
    PMB 6604
    10002 Aurora Ave N # 36
    Seattle, WA 98133

  • The location of the group is:
    Elements Hall
    BodySong Healing and Arts Center943 North 89th St.Seattle, WA 98103

From I-5 (North or South): Take the 85th St. exit. Follow exit West, past two lights (crossing Wallingford and Aurora/Hwy. 99). Take next Right, onto Linden Ave., heading North. Drive four blocks, turn right onto 89th St. BodySong is on the South side of the street, with a brown fence. Street parking only, please.

From Aurora/Hwy. 99 (Southbound): Turn Right onto 85th St. Take the next Right, onto Linden Ave., heading North. Drive four blocks, turn Right onto 89th St. BodySong is on the South side of the street, with a brown fence. Street parking only, please.

From Aurora/Hwy. 99 (Northbound): Turn Left onto 90th St. Take next Left, onto Linden Ave., heading South. Drive one block, turn Left onto 89th St. BodySong is on the South side of the street, with a brown fence. Street parking only, please.


Any questions please contact Dr. Kristen Allott:
Phone: 206-579-2757
Email: allott@dynamicpaths.com



Thursday, January 10, 2008

Testimonial for Wellness In Action

As the Director of A Positive Alternative, I wanted to include a quick note about the huge positive impact that Dr. Kristen Allott has had upon our clients at A Positive Alternative. We are still the only gender-specific, non-12 step oriented alcohol and drug treatment program in the region.

Dr. Allott has been working with our clients for over a year, providing nutritional, lifestyle and wellness guidance. This has all been for the purpose of assisting clients in gaining greater awareness of their bodies, helping clients to understand the impact that food and activity have on increasing the sense of well-being that we believe is extremely necessary for people making the transition from addictive use of alcohol and substances into an alcohol and drug-free life.

Feedback from clients has consistently confirmed that her methods are critically useful. We are very fortunate that Dr. Allott has continued to be willing to offer her workshops to our clients on an ongoing basis.

Dr. Allott is the first Naturopath we refer to when a client has a need for a personal physician – especially in the areas of emotions, difficulty with withdrawal, a need for depression or anxiety to be addressed, as well as for those who would like to begin a safe process of transitioning from using standard antidepressants to a more natural approach.

Having known Dr. Allott for over 5 years, gives our entire staff a confidence in her methods, her scientific and research orientation, her personal commitment to wellness for all, and her compassion for our clients.

In addition, I have personally attended her workshop for professionals, which includes her great width of knowledge that is made extremely accessible for mental health care professionals to pass on to their clients. Her handouts, lectures and question and answer format make her an amazingly wonderful gem in the realm of empowerment both of the clinician and their clients. I would HIGHLY recommend her upcoming workshop.

Catherine Trestrail ACSW,MSW, CDP
Founder and Director of A Positive Alternative (since 1990)
www.apositivealternative.com

Tuesday, December 11, 2007

Wellness in Action Series


The Wellness in Action Series is for mental health professionals and other providers who have clients whose diet is impacting their mental and physical well-being. Often an individual’s emotional history and lack of understanding of her physical body’s needs contribute to her food choices. The series will give you the tools to help your current clients make healthier moment to moment choices and help you market to a new clients.

By providing your clients the resources to have a better
relationship with their body,
you are empowering them to have a better
relationship with themselves.

Benefits:
· Receive support on presenting diet change information to clients.
· Learn techniques that help your clients dialog with their bodies better about dietary causes of anxiety, depression, sugar addition and weight gain.
· Receive handout and the opportunity to roll play and practice in a supportive environment.


Fats: fire starters, fire fighters
Friday February 15, 2008 9am to noon
Learn how to explain the importance of good fats as part of well-balanced nutrition and which bad fats need to be limited. Learn how the type of fats in a diet contribute to depression, aggression, bipolar disorders2, obesity and chronic diseases such as diabetes, and cardiovascular disease.


Presenting protein: if you can teach it, you can own it
Friday March 14, 2008 9am to noon
During the first part of this group, you will receive detailed handouts and scripts to help enter into dialogue with clients. After we discuss the impact protein can make on improving health, you will have the opportunity to explain the importance of protein for maintaining energy and mental clarity as well as preventing anxiety and depression.


Encouraging exercise: changing self-image
Friday April 11, 2008 9am to noon
Learn how to encourage reluctant clients to exercise and appreciate the qualities of self-curiosity, self-observation, and self-compassion. When exercise is integrated into the values systems of the individual it becomes a, integral part of the client’s life.


Cost for the Series:
$240 for all three parts when received before Jan 25th
$270 for all three parts when received after Jan 25th, Deadline Feb 8th.
Limited to 12 people


Question? Please call Dr. Kristen Allott at (206)579-2757

or visit www.dynamicpaths.com

Dr. Allott is developing a year-long training program and is seeking continuing education credits. This series is in development, does not provide CE credits.

Tuesday, September 25, 2007

How to Rebuild You Brain Group

I have long believed that as medical science has not been asking what the brain needs in terms of nutrition to function. To better educated the clients of Dynamic Paths, I am excited to announce that I am now offering a group for established clients at Dynamic Paths. This group will focus on providing more information than can be offered in individual sessions. After offering a Wellness Group at A Positive Alternative (www.apositivealternative.com) for the last year, I can see the benefits of individuals learning more about how proteins, sugars and fats affect their energy and mental clarity. With this information, I see that people can better moment to moment decisions on eating because they are better to understand and integrate what their body and emotions are telling them.

I am so committed to people getting this information that if you attend six of the ten sessions offered. I will offer you a free 45 minute individual session.


Rebuilding your Brain by listening to your Body Wellness Group

Wednesdays from 6 to 8 pm
$80 per Group
Must Reserve a seat by Monday before Group


Oct 10th: Discussion on the philosophy of Chinese Medicine. Suggested reading Five Spirits by Lorie Eve Dechar.

Oct. 24th: More Energy and More Mental Clarity: Why when you eat is as important and what you eat.

Oct. 31st: Labels: How to know what you are eating.

Nov 7th: Dialoging with the Committing: Getting the Critic out of the CEO seat.

Nov 14th: Planning for holiday eating and stress.

Dec 5th: Sugars: Not all sugars are created equally.

Dec 12th: Diet for Lowering Cholesterol: What fats to keep.

Jan 2nd: Making New Year’s Resolutions continue through out the year.

Jan 9th: Fats: Promoting Health Promoting Disease.

Jan 16th: Olympic Athlete Syndrome


Tuesday, September 11, 2007

Addiction Free without AA


  • Have you been looking for Outpatient Treatment for Alcohol or Drug use that is not based on AA or the 12-steps as the basis of Recovery?


  • Have you had mixed feelings about seeking treatment, partly because you still are very high functioning in many areas of your life, despite your drinking or use? (The majority of our clients are quite high functioning).


  • Would you like to be part of a program with small groups (no more than 8) that focuses on skills for not only getting free of addiction, and addresses other psychological issues that are intertwined with drinking/drugs?


  • Would you prefer a program that focuses on Therapy vs. court orders to treatment because of DUI’s and group members who are just marking time? (We carefully screen our clients in order to have a supportive, positive group experience for everyone.)

    A Positive Alternative is a Radically Different Approach to Alcohol & Drug Treatment – the only one of it’s kind in our Region. Here are just a few of the ways We Are Different:

    1) All our Therapists are Master’s Level Trained Clinicians with decades of both Addictions AND Mental Health experience.
    2) We believe that Groups need to consist of members who can easily identify with each other. Our Adult Groups are Gender Specific with separate Women’s Outpatient Program and Men’s Outpatient Program. In addition, our College Student’s Program to Prevent Addiction works to change addictive patterns, yet does not insist upon abstinence as a lifelong pattern.
    3) We incorporate the latest research in addiction therapy into our programs, including Motivational Enhancement, Cognitive Therapy, including Coping, Habit Change, Relationship and Self-Care Skills training, Mindfulness Meditation, Nutrition and Physical methods that effect well-being and brain recovery.
    If you would like more information, please see our website at www.APositiveAlternative.com or call 206-547-1955

Thursday, August 23, 2007

Alternative Healthcare for Low-income & Homeless People

AHAC, Alternative Healthcare Access Campaign, was initially formed in August 1999 by a small group of students and homeless advocates, who were concerned that the benefits of alternative healthcare were becoming exclusively available to the wealthier segments of society. Previously, the Sound Clinic provided full service alternative and conventional healthcare to the downtown Seattle community until its closure in 1997, which created a void in accessible alternative healthcare for low-income & homeless people.
In 2006 it was estimated that nearly 6000 people were homeless in the Seattle area, according to the one night count of Seattle King County Coalition for the Homeless. Studies show that people in stressful circumstances (such as homelessness & unemployment) are more likely to also suffer from ill health. As alternative healthcare's focus is on disease prevention and restoring the body's natural balance, it is a strong tool for re-establishing and maintaining health in this population. One of AHAC's primary goals is to establish onsite clinical services at social service centers for low-income and homeless people to help address this need.
Since October 2000, AHAC has delivered more than 5000 free treatments at our service sites to close to 2300 people, giving us a nearly 50% return rate.

For more information contact:
AHAC
Address: PO BOX 45364 Seattle, WA 98145
Phone: (206)925-3322
E-mail: ahacseattle@gmail.com

Thursday, August 16, 2007

Practitioner Corner: When should a child see a therapist?

KA: Jennifer, could you tell us a little about your practice as a psychotherapist?

I work primarily with children and their parents. In order to effectively help a child I have found it most helpful to also work with their parent(s). What that typically looks like is that I have one appointment per week (50 minutes) with the child and one appointment per month (50 minutes) with the parent(s). Depending on what is happening in the child and family’s life that may mean more appointments or less.

In my sessions with children I employ a variety of modalities; play therapy, art therapy, talk therapy and sand tray. Children, even under the most extreme stress, have a natural drive toward health. My job is to help them find their way back to a normal, healthy developmental progression. Children walk through this world doing their best to make sense of what they experience; they create a story as to how and why it all works this way. I work with children and their parents to ensure that they are creating helpful, nurturing, realistic stories.

One of the main reasons I work closely with parents is that I aim to enhance the parent/child relationship. Certain life stressors such as loss of a family member, divorce, or a life threatening illness will strain a child/parent relationship. In order for deep healing to happen we need to help bolster the child/parent relationship.

KA: How would a parent know that their child might benefit from seeing a therapist?

Good question. Sometimes it is obvious – a major loss (death of a family member, a divorce), a parent’s illness (cancer, depression…), symptoms of struggle with depression or anxiety (sleep problems, eating issues, thoughts of self harm, inability to participate in typical daily activities) or maybe a sudden change such as refusing to go to school when previously they loved school.

Sometimes it is not so obvious but more of a subtle feeling that a parent may have that something is “off”; perhaps a child does not react to a major event like a death, or there is a behavioral change that seemed like a phase that has gone on for much longer than is comfortable for everyone, or a parent notices that the whole family is making special arrangements to accommodate their child’s behaviors (not going certain places, adjusting schedules to avoid certain scenarios).


KA: How is this different than a parent seeing a therapist about the stress of parenting?

Parenting is without question the most difficult and rewarding “job”. I have a lot of respect for parents who are brave enough to investigate potential sources of support. During our initial conversation we discuss whether or not your child will benefit from therapy. The monthly parenting consultations are designed to address specific questions about your child based on my experience with them. As an example a child might have sleeping problems six months after the finalization of a divorce, which could seem unrelated. In a parent consultation our collective experience of the child will provide a way for us to problem solve together.


KA: How do you pick a good therapist for your child and what other concerns should you have such as confidentiality?

My recommendation is to talk with a few child therapists. They should be happy to spend some time with you on the phone and answer any questions you may have. Therapy only works if it is a good “fit”. It is important that you feel like a therapist truly hears you and includes you in your child’s process.

It is a very personal decision. Websites are one way to begin searching and learning about different therapists. Talking with friends or colleagues can help you gather some names. I would recommend you ask if a therapist specializes in children. You should expect their office to be welcoming to a child (toys, art supplies available). Ask them to tell you about their office in an initial phone call. Ask them what a session may be like for your child.

I am very cautious about confidentiality. When it comes to children I feel you can’t be too careful. This is one reason I have chosen to not accept health insurance. If a therapist submits an invoice to an insurance company they need to include a diagnosis, which will go into a client’s medical records. I feel that to be an ethical conflict in most cases. Keeping a mental health diagnosis out of a child’s medical records can also avoid misuse in custody disputes.

The child’s well being is the focus and that needs to be protected at all expense. When a parent seeks counseling for their child they are making an investment in the child’s future and healthy development. Often a child moves through a “diagnosis” such as obsessive-compulsive disorder and it doesn’t warrant locking them into that label. There is a fine line between naming a diagnosis and actually identifying the problem in your child’s life.

My recommendation to all the parents I work with is to trust their instincts, do some research and know that you know your child better than anyone. What I offer is another way to approach problem solving for you and your child.



Jennifer Stoakes, MA
(206) 409-7220
http://www.psychotherapynw.net/
My office is located in the Maple Leaf neighborhood in Seattle